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You’re a Father facing a High-Conflict divorce...
Maybe your ex-spouse is alienating your children from you by making false allegations against you.
Maybe you feel like the court is biased against you, making it difficult to get a fair hearing, and you are bleeding money.
Maybe your lawyer has not done a good job and they blew your money and put you in a worse position.
Maybe it's something else.
We can help.
Common advice like “The judge will figure it out, let them do their job” or “Let the alienated child come around on their own” simply doesn’t work.
Advice like this lacks the nuanced understanding of the family dynamic during and after a divorce. It doesn’t account for the complexities of dealing with a difficult ex-spouse who may be manipulative, navigating biased court systems, or managing the emotional fallout that affects your children.
I was able to get the legal help I needed. I was able to get the counseling I needed. I was able to just tell my story.
Brian F.
Arkansas
What is a High-Conflict Divorce?
A high-conflict divorce isn’t just a difficult breakup—it’s a nonstop battle filled with blame, manipulation, and power struggles.
One or both parties refuse to cooperate, communicate with hostility, and often use the legal system to control or punish the other parent. It usually involves:
1. Constant arguments or stonewalling
2. False accusations or attempts to alienate the children
3. Legal battles that drag on with no resolution
4. Emotional or psychological manipulation
5. An ex who seems more focused on “winning” than on what’s best for the kids
In short: It’s a divorce where logic takes a back seat—and conflict becomes the main driver.
The bad news? The system isn’t designed to handle this well.
The good news? With the right strategy, you can move forward with strength and protect your kids, protect yourself, and protect what ultimately matters most.
There’s a better way...
The current system is not working. So we have created a better approach that will save you a ton on legal expenses, take control of your divorce and most importantly, prevent you from losing your kids and create a stable future for them.
Here are some of the real-world challenges we help you handle:
"How do I find the right lawyer?"
"My ex is making false accusations against me. How should I respond?"
"I’m worried about parental alienation. How can I keep my ex from manipulating our kids against me?"
"What’s the best way to communicate with a high-conflict ex?"
"How do I document everything so it supports my case in court?"
"How do I deal with the overwhelm and stress during this challenging time?"
"My ex keeps violating the custody agreement. How do I handle this?"
"How do I budget and manage my legal expenses?"
"I want to be a better father during this challenging time. Where do I start?"
"My ex-partner keeps trying to trigger me. How do I stay calm and avoid escalation?"
"What are some ways to avoid costly legal mistakes?"
"How do I co-parent with someone who won’t cooperate?"
"I’m worried about my kids’ mental health and trauma. What can I do to help them?"
"How do I respond to friends and family who are being misled by my ex?"
We answer all of these questions and more. We customize our program to your specific situation and design a plan that will maximize your success during and after your divorce.
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